March 26, 2002
I enjoyed reading your article about the typical nice guy. However, authors like yourself fail to reflect on the many aspects of the "nice guy." I consider myself a nice guy because people will tell me that to my face. I kind of like it because they say it respectfully. Women like me because I am intelligent and friendly at the same time, but only as a friend. However, I dont resemble your definition of a nice guy at all.
I would say I am more of a chill guy, which means I like to have a good time but fail at getting laid. This brings up lame pick up lines. Why do women always fall for the assholes that come up with cheesy ass pick up lines.
These women are not my type. My type of woman would come up to me and say a friendly word or so. So maybe its not all on the nice guy shoulder, it can also be put on women who dont know what they want in a dude.
I know that I am a nice guy and not a Loser and yet women seem to be intimidated by me.
In fact, I think i am pretty damn cool, possibly the coolest. I would say I am a handsome man with an incredible intellect and a good sense of humor. These are the qualities that can get you far in life and in bed yet women still like to look at me as their friend rather than a sex slave. ???
I hope next time a nice guy article is written, you can take into account
that not all nice guys are whimps and pencil pushers who want to lather their special lady in flowers and candles 24\7.
about those nice guys who are athletic, intelligent, handsome, outgoing and respectful.
Tell me if this is strange also, the ladies that are a lot older than me dig me a lot more than college girls. WHATS UP WITH THAT? Not that I dont mind having a hot mom hit on me, its just that I would rather hook up with someone a little more my age.
Thanks for reading my rant, but I have one question I want you to answer. How can I become irresistable to women without losing my respect for them? You're the coolest.