Subject: COMMENTS: Bitch-in-Training thanks you
Date: Fri, 18 Nov 2005x
I am not a
heartless bitch… yet.
I have not
Thank you for
giving me a worthy goal! I am growing into my backbone quite nicely, and when
I feel myself start to crumble into meekness, weakness, oh-poor-me-ness… I go
to my Favorites and read a little bit of your inspirational opinions and
met a guy with an actual personality - smart, funny, his own interests &
passions, mutual attraction, the works - not a single Red Flag. I, personally,
thought it would be nice to go have a beer together & chat a little more.
So, I made that simple suggestion. No big deal, right? Nope. He went
completely haywire!! What the hell!?!! You'd have thought I had somehow
altered the fabric of the universe….
when my training-pants failed and I couldn't figure out why I was depressed by
the advice I actually got: "Men like to be the hunter, maybe you should
back off & let him be the assertive one." Please do not vomit, oh
Bitch Supreme, it only took a few short moments of browsing the collective HBI
wisdom before I realized… Hey! If the schmuck can't handle me asking him out
for a beer, he sure as hell isn't going to be able to handle any actual
undiluted dosage of ME - - Ever! Imagine dealing with someone with that level
of insecurity when I told him what I want in bed!!?
gentle guidance of HBI, it may have taken me the duration of the entire
exercise of actually going out on a date with this guy to figure that out, and
for this I will forever be grateful to you.
I love the
in-your-face honesty, the wit, and intelligence of your site.
Thank you. I
have so much to learn! (and the perfect link for my Xmas wish-list for Stuff!)