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Nice Guys = BLEAH!
Nice Guys we can do without

From: metaldave2000@hotmail.com
Subject: Your article on Nice Guys...

Greetings,

I was just reading some of your articles on nice guys and they really got me thinking. And I'd like to take just a moment to give you my take on nice guys. Being a guy myself, I've seen a lot of this in my own life.

I think the problem is this. The guys who perpetuate the cry, "Women just don't like nice guys" are spending too much time feeling sorry for themselves. They are in truth, egotistical. They are focusing on themselves and then blaming women for their own problems rather than seeing the true root cause of their situation. I speak from experience. I spent a great deal of time feeling sorry for myself and buying into that same myth. It is so critically important, in my opinion, for a guy to come to the point where he is happy with himself and his life and is secure and confident in who he is BEFORE he tries to get into a relationship. If he enters a relationship without being confident and secure, then he is only going to dump his problems, his insecurities, and his self pity on the women he tries to end up with. I believe that it is self-pity, lack of self-esteem and lack of self-respect that women find unattractive. And these things only lead to a lack of respect for women and their views and opinions, feelings and needs.

Thank you for your time.

Dave

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